Tuesday, May 3, 2016

Rogue's Angels Present: Beyond Good Manners by Tara Woods Turner and J. Blake Turner, PhD

Please welcome Tara Woods Turner and J. Blake Turner, PhD authors of Beyond Good Manners.

Tara Woods Turner & J. Blake Turner, PhD will be awarding a $15 Amazon or Barnes and Noble GC to a randomly drawn winner via rafflecopter during the tour.


Beyond Good Manners: How to Raise a Sophisticated Child
by Tara Woods Turner and J. Blake Turner, PhD

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GENRE:  Parenting (Non-fiction)

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BLURB:

Unlock the key to creating a cultivated life for your child with this targeted parenting guide. You will learn how to raise an engaging, accomplished and sophisticated child, one who gets noticed for all the right reasons. From fine dining, travel  and art appreciation to navigating social media with integrity - Beyond Good Manners: How to Raise a Sophisticated Child will show you how to take your child to the next level. Whether your child is 5 or 15 this is the one book you will reference time and again for advice and techniques that are relevant, practical and insightful.

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EXCERPT:

Chapter 6 - Wardrobe and Grooming
Let's imagine you’re dressing for a dinner party and your child insists on wearing a glittery, sparkling ballet tutu instead of the $80 shantung capri pants you bought for her. What should you do? Let her wear the tutu. Crushing her sense of whimsy will do nothing to cultivate a sense of style for your child. It is not necessarily a battle of wills. She is simply trying to tell you something about herself. Listen carefully and then take the lead. Compliment her ownership of her appearance and use it as an opportunity to open the conversation about choices. Explain to her that she can wear the sparkly tutu but she should understand that it is not the most appropriate thing in her closet to consider. Tell her that this is an occasion where there is room for negotiation but that this will not always be the case. Then unveil some awesome ideas to add to the fun. You can show her how to further explore the topic of ballet and ballet costumes. She can read age-appropriate books on ballet and describe her favorite parts to you; watch documentaries on or video clips about actual child ballerinas; recreate a scene from Tchaikovsky’s Swan Lake with her dolls or arts and crafts supplies. Introduce her to basic French ballet terms such as pas de deux or pliè and see if she can reproduce the first five positions. Kick off your shoes and do it with her! In future she will don her tutu with pride because she not only earned it but because her appreciation is now informed. More importantly, you have quieted her frustration - not her voice - and created a platform for growth and development. With time she will find more constructive, cooperative ways to display her individuality and creativity because you wisely chose to not make her behavior the basis for your response.


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AUTHOR's Bio and Link:

Tara Woods Turner is an etiquette consultant, author and content contributor. She lives in New York City and believes strong societies are built upon strong families. She also spends way too much time analyzing James Taylor lyrics.

J. Blake Turner PhD, a researcher in mental health and associate professor at Columbia University, lives in New York City and is much more sophisticated than he used to be. 



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GIVEAWAY INFORMATION and RAFFLECOPTER CODE

Tara Woods Turner & J. Blake Turner, PhD will be awarding a $15 Amazon or Barnes and Noble GC to a randomly drawn winner via rafflecopter during the tour.



20 comments:

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    1. I will shamelessly piggyback on this comment and add my thanks and appreciation for such an excellent feature of my book. Thank you!

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  2. What does your family think of your writing?

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    1. That's a great question. I am lucky enough to have the best family in the world and their support has been amazing. My mother and father-in-law jokingly told us they didn't want the proofed copy of our book - only the ones with errors in it because someday it would be worth more. Even our teen nieces have taken copies of the book to school to show their friends, which makes us really proud, as authors.

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  3. Welcome to the Angel's blog. I hope you have a great tour. Allana Angel

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    1. Thank you so much! So far it has been a lot of fun. I didn't know that interacting with readers would be a part of a virtual book tour and that has been the most pleasant surprise, so far. I'm a social butterfly so i really like this part lol.

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    1. If you could travel to a country you have never been to, where would it be?

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    2. I would absolutely love to spend a few weeks in Wales! I've been fortunate enough to see a bit of the world but i don't think anything could compare to renting a cottage in the Weslh countryside or at Anglessey and just reading outside by the garden wall. Oh, and the scones - can't forget the scones with butter and jam!

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  5. I liked the excerpt, thank you.

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  6. Great excerpt! Though I'm supposed to be an adult, I think this book could benefit my inner child. Hope your tour is a success!

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    1. Awesome comment lol! I collect American Girl dolls so my inner child is more out than in some days :)

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  7. Thanks for the giveaway; I like the excerpt. :)

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  8. Really great excerpt! Thanks for sharing :)

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  9. Sounds like an interesting book and excerpt, thanks for sharing!

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    1. You're welcome - it was a lot of fun writing it and very therapeutic, as well. Despite what the media says there is so much greatness in the next generation!

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  10. Great excerpt! This book sounds like a very interesting read. Looking forward to checking out this book.

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  11. Congrats on the new book and good luck on the book tour!

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