Tara Woods Turner & J. Blake Turner, PhD will be awarding a $15 Amazon or Barnes and Noble GC to a randomly drawn winner via rafflecopter during the tour.
Beyond
Good Manners: How to Raise a Sophisticated Child
by Tara Woods Turner and J. Blake Turner, PhD
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GENRE: Parenting (Non-fiction)
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BLURB:
Unlock
the key to creating a cultivated life for your child with this targeted
parenting guide. You will learn how to raise an engaging, accomplished and
sophisticated child, one who gets noticed for all the right reasons. From fine
dining, travel and art appreciation to navigating social media with
integrity - Beyond Good Manners: How to Raise a Sophisticated Child will show
you how to take your child to the next level. Whether your child is 5 or 15
this is the one book you will reference time and again for advice and
techniques that are relevant, practical and insightful.
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EXCERPT:
Chapter
6 - Wardrobe and Grooming
Let's imagine you’re dressing for a dinner party and
your child insists on wearing a glittery, sparkling ballet tutu instead of the
$80 shantung capri pants you bought for her. What should you do? Let her wear
the tutu. Crushing her sense of whimsy will do nothing to cultivate a sense of
style for your child. It is not necessarily a battle of wills. She is simply
trying to tell you something about herself. Listen carefully and then take the
lead. Compliment her ownership of her appearance and use it as an opportunity
to open the conversation about choices. Explain to her that she can wear the
sparkly tutu but she should understand that it is not the most appropriate
thing in her closet to consider. Tell her that this is an occasion where there
is room for negotiation but that this will not always be the case. Then unveil
some awesome ideas to add to the fun. You can show her how to further explore
the topic of ballet and ballet costumes. She can read age-appropriate books on
ballet and describe her favorite parts to you; watch documentaries on or video
clips about actual child ballerinas; recreate a scene from Tchaikovsky’s Swan
Lake with her dolls or arts and crafts supplies. Introduce her to basic French
ballet terms such as pas de deux or pliè and see if she can reproduce the first
five positions. Kick off your shoes and do it with her! In future she will don
her tutu with pride because she not only earned it but because her appreciation
is now informed. More importantly, you have quieted her frustration - not her
voice - and created a platform for growth and development. With time she will
find more constructive, cooperative ways to display her individuality and
creativity because you wisely chose to not make her behavior the basis for your
response.
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AUTHOR's Bio and Link:
Tara Woods Turner is an etiquette
consultant, author and content contributor. She lives in New York City and
believes strong societies are built upon strong families. She also spends way
too much time analyzing James Taylor lyrics.
J. Blake Turner PhD, a researcher in mental health and
associate professor at Columbia University, lives in New York City and is much
more sophisticated than he used to be.
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GIVEAWAY INFORMATION and RAFFLECOPTER CODE
Tara Woods Turner & J. Blake Turner, PhD will be awarding
a $15 Amazon or Barnes and Noble GC to a randomly drawn winner via rafflecopter
during the tour.

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